16 x MOM: A Mastery of Motherhood
by Barbara Olivo Cagle
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Barbara (Bobbie) Olivo Cagle
President of Spokane Authors Self-Publishers 2005-2007 Author of 16 x MOM: A Mastery of Motherhood.
Barbara Olivo Cagle has written a true story about her mother, Jacqueline Rose Nunez Olivo, “Rose.” Rose was pregnant 4,500 + days! A Master of Motherhood tells the story of Rose's family and how she raised her sixteen children in the heart of San Jose, California. The story covers over 100 years of California history and the migration of family immigrants from the old countries of Chile, Spain and Italy.
For more information on 16 x MOM go to: www.barbaracagle.com available for $17.95
Barbara is the thirteenth of Rose’s sixteen children. She was born and reared in San Jose, California. St Joseph’s School was the foundation for her education through eighth grade. In Notre Dame High School, Barbara went by her nickname, “Bobbie.” She was involved in numerous school activities, played the drums, was a cheerleader, song girl, sewed, and created various forms of artwork. She aspired to acting and performed in the Notre Dame Shakespearean Festival. Rumor has it that she pulled a fire alarm near the end of the festival that created some confusion and concern.
In her senior year, on February 14, 1970, she was involved in a tragic toboggan accident. Bobbie crashed into a huge pine tree and was bedridden for months. The instant before impact, an out-of-body experience flashed before her eyes, and the love of her family and friends left her with a dream to write a story of her mother. During her recovery she collected letters and memorabilia from her family. In her second year of college she met her wonderful Navy husband, Donald J. Cagle. He was attending college in Palo Alto, California. Prior to their marriage, she traveled Europe with two of her sisters for six weeks. Not long after she returned from Europe, Bobbie and Don were married on April 21, 1974. God blessed them with two beautiful children: Jocilyn Roselle in 1975 and Jason John in 1977.
From 1976 to 1979 Bobbie volunteered her time as a cheerleader and Pep Club instructor for the Oslo American School, in Oslo, Norway. She spent time in North Chicago, Illinois; Monterey, California; and Guam, before residing in Spokane, Washington to rear her children. Bobbie enjoyed an extremely successful career in real estate from 1988 to 2002. Since 2002 she has performed in various Mystery Dinner Theatre and Style shows. She has also performed with with the “Tap Grandmas,” "Spring Chicks," and the "Rivercity Cloggers," of Spokane. Presently Bobbie is the founder and clogging instructor of the "Heart Beats" of Deer Lake, Washington. The Heart Beats is a federated club affiliated with the Spokane Area Council and the Square and Folk Dance Federation of Washington.
My Affirmations!
Serenity flows from the depths of my soul. I am immersed in peace. The Christ Light guides me on a path of renewal and discovery. My body is a temple of the risen Christ. I am strong and whole. I realize the constancy of Spirit and accept it with gratitude. With faith and compassion, we shine the peace of Christ into the world.
by Silent Unity www.dailyword.com
Goal
I want the whole world to know my mom's story and her resiliencies to all that life dealt her.Syndicate
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I AM THE LAST WINNER OF BARBARA'S BOOK. I AM NOT APPLYING TO WIN AGAIN. I THOUGHT I WOULD DROP A LINE TO TELL YOU WHAT A WONDERFUL, HEART WARMING BARBARA'S BOOK REALLY IS. IT TELLS A STORY OF ONE OF THE MOST COURAGEOUS, LOVING WOMEN I HAVE EVER HEARD OF.
THIS WOMAN, NEVER UP ON HERSELF OR HER CHILDREN. READING THIS BOOK MADE ME WANT TO STAND UP AND CHEER FOR HER. SHE FOUGHT ODDS STACKED AGAINST HER, YET SHE AND HER CHILDREN CAME OUT THE WINNERS.
SINCE WINNING, I HAVE LENT MY BOOK TO FRIENDS AND FAMILY....IT'S AN AWESOME BOOK, AND BARBARA SHOULD BE PROUD OF WHAT SHE HAS ACCOMPLISHED.
BRAVO BARBARA
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BARBARA HOPKINS at
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What an amazing give away! It sounds amazing. My mum was number 11 out of 12. 4 others died, so my gran carried 16 children too. Sadly I never actually met her... I would love a chance to win this book and if I don't I would love to read it ayway. Where could I purchase it?
Lots of greetings from Scotland and thanks for entering my giveaway
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Thanks for entering my giveaway! I think I remember seeing your blog last year?
Good luck! happy blog hopping!
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Bobbie, I've just spent the last half hour reading your blog. Very interesting, and it means so much to read all that after having read every word of your book. It was one of those books that you can't put down. I already have told many people about how much I enjoyed your book. Your friend, carolyn
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What a wonderful book...Kudos to your mom.. she sounds like a wonderful, unselfish loving mom! And for all those out there who grew up with less than that.. your book is a great opportunity to read about the positives in life and to learn how to be better parents ourselves!
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Hi Barbara,
I'm so impressed with what you have accomplished with your book, dancing and all that you do to make a beautiful life for yourself and those around you.
Bless you and Cheers! Your friend,
Anne
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Thank you Barbara for leaving me a comment.
Wow! Your mom looks great. What a beautiful family. My gradmother had 14 children and died at 105....she was great, I miss her.
I bookmarked your sites so that I can read them slowly. Please include me in the draw.
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Well, kiddo, I finally had a chance to take a look for more than a split second, and your blog is truly great!!! Excellent job, m’dear. Good for you!!!! The pix are terrific!!!!
SO proud of you.
Bonnie
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Barbara, You and all those fine young ladies looked terrific!!!!!!!!!!! It's beautiful! Who design all the clothing? I bet you probably had something to do with that. I bet your family was proud watching the news. Did (16XMom) watch it yet? Very nice job really of the book presentation on your website. Love you, William
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Loved your shim sham dance! you go girl!!
Love you ! Dee
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This is so beautiful and so are you my friend! Can you believe we've grown so much and possibly wiser...I do believe you and I are still 17 inside!
I so remember when you hit the tree! I walked into your hospital room and walked right back out. It was not my Bobbie I saw, but an alien who slept in that hospital bed! I remember almost fainting and Thank God your brother was there since he sat me down and made sure I recovered. I was so happy when you could finally see clear and spoke even though it was in very hushed tones! I'll never forget!!!
Love,
Faye Baker Baxter, Girlfriend of 40+ years! And one of your Brides Maids!
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Hi Aunt Barbara,
Just thought I'd let you know that I finally have a copy of your book through my daughter in Nebraska. I am about halfway through. It's been fun reading and most enlightening. I had often wondered about the relationship between grandma and grandpa. Seems even at a young age, he wasn't treating her like the princess that she was and still is.
Well anyway, good job!
Love,
Kathy Mills
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Great Book!!! I really enjoyed it.
I love true stories. I will share this with others
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Hi Bobbie. I bought your book as soon as I heard it was out. What a fantastic read. Being a parent has got to be the most challenging, blind endeavor any person could undertake. There is no formula. However, your mom seems to have found the answers. Her dedication to family, education, and community is admirable. It would be impossible to chose a favorite story, but I can attest to the fact that her "words of wisdom" are true words of wisdom. I wish your book had been available when my children were young. I could have learned a thing or two from your mom. I encourage ALL young moms and dads to read this book and learn what being a parent really means. It's not what you can buy your children, it's what you teach them. What a remarkable woman!
And a word for you Bobbie. The book was an easy, enjoyable read. Great job!
Bernie
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Hi Barbara,
My goodness 16 children! That puts an entirely different spin on what it means to be a mother! Your book sounds very interesting and is such a nice tribute.
Thank you for inviting me to have a look!
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Thanks Barbara for writing this book. You kept my attention from cover to cover. There are so many facts about Mom and her upbringing that I never new about. Love, your brother Ken.
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A CHARMING book; a true-life story of a woman and her family. I have passed this book to my sister-in-law in Phoenix who belongs to a book club and she loved it!
Bobbie, thanks for sharing your family with all of us.
Toni Rigoni
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Bobbie..16 X Mom is such a wonderful, and heart-stirring recount of your family and your mother's unconditional love! ( This book will make a wonderful Mothers' Day gift for a mom ) I am proud to be connected in "some little way' to your family. Your mom's 91st birthday pictures are great..and she still is so beautiful. God Bless her and God Bless you for sharing her with all of us.
Love,
Uni
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Congratulations on publishing your Fabulous book Barbara!!! You must be very proud of your work...16X Mom is a wonderful story of your Mom's life and family times...I never knew all of those details...your dedication and passion to write this book and chronicle your family history is amazing...thanks for sharing your documentary with our world!!! Love all of the pictures of your family..how is your Mom and your brothers and sisters?...it has been so long since I have seen them all..please give everyone my love and warm regards!! Happy Easter..
Jan (Lopes) Back
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Barbara,
I loved your book. Through it, I highly respect your mom for her dedication to her family and the love for all of her children. Having a family member myself that has mulitable children [12] I wish she would read your book. Your mom is proof that you can have many children and raise them yourself and not make the children raise each other, looseing their childhoods. Your mom is a true inspiration. I am so proud of you for the great job you did on this project. Wanting to publish my own works, I know how much work and research goes into this adventure. I am thankful for you being president of our club and being a dedicated leader. You did a great job and the club was better for it. I wish you all the best with this book. It has a great story to tell. Kudos to you!
God Bless, Jackie
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WOW this sounds like a wonderful book. My ex husband is one of 16 so I am so amazed with that life experience. I am one of 3 but would love to tell my moms story as much as I could remember since my mom passed away.
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Thanks Bobbie for writing Mom's story - I don't think anyone could have done a better job!!! It sure did keep my attention - I'm just now learning about details and events about Mom which we would never have known had you not written this book. So again, thanks Bobbie - you are definitely a "special sister"!!
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I want to wish you all good things in life and tell you how happy I am that you're my sister. Sixteen x Mom is a brilliant and highly emotional book of love, sacrifice and dedication.
Love, Marialice
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Wow! Your mom looks great. She sure doesn't look 91. And now she's going to a 91-year-old whizzing around in her little red car. God bless her! I hope she has lots of fun with it.
And, of course, I would love to win your book about her.
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Oprah should definitely have you on her show for Mother's Day. You not only give a lively and interesting presentation of 16XMom, but you are also photogenic and speak clearly and distinctly. You and Rose would make a fantastic duo on Oprah's show. Good luck. Bobbee
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Karen McMullen wrote:
Barbara This is a wonderful presentation. This will make my mom (Grace Marie, age 87 - My Auntie Rose's sister) very proud to have Barbara's book presented on Oprah Winfrey's show, especially on Mother's Day. This is a celebration of our family history. I am very proud of my cousin Barbara's accomplishment and for the continued success of her book.
Love, Your cousin Karen
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Bobbie - Oprah would be lucky to have you on her show! The audience would love to meet your 16 X Mom and hear her story first hand and from you of course and maybe from some of the rest of the family, too. Lots of luck and keep us posted!
Elaine
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Barbara, that was a great presentation and I certainly do think that Oprah should see this. The book was an emotional book for me to realize what my mother went through and that her happiness was in having all my brothers and sisters and that she passed that down to us. Thank you again for writing this book.
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